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Nov 09Hiding behind your iPhone
In the latest issue of my alma mater’s magazine, The Alcalde, the Dean of Communication, Roderick P. Hart, states that the assumption that new media will change the nature of human relationships is false.
“The new media, we are told, have changed the world. The new media, we are told, have even changed what it means to be human.”
Hart goes on to say that this is not really the case, that the new media changes the medium but not the message.
“The new media have changed many things but not all things. We no longer have phonograph records, but we somehow still have music. Newspapers are thinner, but the news continues to thrive. X-boxes have declined, but video games have never been more popular. Teenagers still ogle one another, but they do so first on Facebook. When finally getting together, they film their antics and post them on YouTube, thereby bringing mountains of despair to their parents and their parents’ attorneys.”
I think this is an excellent point, but I believe more is changing than just the medium. The nature of human interaction, in my opinion, is being altered by this new media. I would say that my biggest concern is isolation. We communicate through facebook status updates, tweets, blogs, and many other channels on the internet and though we are technically interacting with more people at once, it almost feels as if we’re isolating ourselves. Instead of discussing a strange event one on one with a friend, I find myself throwing it out as a status update for anyone and everyone to catch or ignore. Yes, we are putting more information out there about ourselves, but we have no idea who is reading it and if anyone even cares. It’s quantity instead of quality interaction, and that has repercussions. While most people can maintain a balance of impersonal vs. personal communications, it seems to me a slippery slope that some might find themselves sliding down.
Beyond that, the new media gives us avenues to avoid interactions with other people. On the bus? Put on your headphones and listen to your iPod. Even better, surf the web on your smart phone and see what your friends are up to. Ignore the people around you, their conversations and easily avoid any possible communication by being engrossed in your own isolated activity.
But despite my fears and groans about how society is crumbling and all is lost, the new media is capable of enriching human relationships. Technology helps us span thousands of miles, allowing us to communicate daily with people that perhaps 50 years ago we would have only been able to maintain as pen pals. Friends in Europe seem so much closer when I can interact through Facebook, sharing messages, having conversations and exchanging pictures with little effort. Technology is definitely on its way to helping us bridge gaps where communication was previously not easy or feasible.
Ultimately I believe society is going through some growing pains. We have the means, but we have yet to fully harness technology to create rich social interactions that are more meaningful then a quick status update or witty comment. Technology is still taking shape and is becoming so prevalent that we must be aware of how it is impacting our relationships, lives and overall outlook. It’s a brave new world and we cannot dismiss that the means in which our interactions are executed will affect us.

